âI remembered getting upset at my husband for making me look so fat in pictures. But it was never his fault. I was fat to begin with.âÂ
Weâre sure all you wives and girlfriends can relate to what Vyriella said. We naturally expect our significant others to capture us at our best because theyâre the ones who know us best. It's easy to get frustrated when things don't go our way.
But for Vyriella, it was more than just frustration. Her weight issues deeply affected her marriage and sex life.Â
Challenges of Motherhood
Vyriella, 41, is a mother to one and runs an online business.Â
She gave birth to a healthy daughter in 2018. Like any first time mother, she was excited at the prospect of motherhood. But little did she know that the challenges of being a mother would come as early as the postpartum stage.Â
Struggling With Pregnancy Weight
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Standing at 90kg, this was the heaviest she had ever been.Â
She admits that the weight gain was partially her fault. She developed âbad eating habitsâ to cope with the stresses of motherhoodâthis included munching on chips and cakes (among various other snacks), and drinking bubble tea everyday.Â
Postpartum Blues
âFrom the outside, my life looked picture-perfect. I am a stay-at-home mom with a beautiful daughter, a loving and supportive husband, get to travel to different countries...But behind closed doors, I was miserable, suicidal, depressed and mostly unhappy.â
She didnât just lose her bodyâshe also lost her identity and freedom to becoming a stay at home mom.Â
She felt trapped at home and cried herself to bed every night. She used to snap at her daughter for crying all the time.Â
âNobody knew how broken I was inside.â
Her internal struggle with her emotions and weight took a toll on her marriage. Her husband and her fought âover the smallest thingsâ. She even harboured thoughts of âbailing outâ because she felt like she wasnât good enough.
Her Life Almost Ended
Vyriellaâs wake up call came when she and her daughterâs lives were almost lost in a near accident. Both of them were almost knocked down by a car, but thankfully both escaped unharmed.Â
Nevertheless, this near fatal incident changed her life forever. She realised that she had to live for her daughter and be strong for her. This strength needed to come from living her life as a happier, more positive person.Â
She needed a lifestyle overhaul.Â
Vyriella Today
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- From being 90kg when she was pregnant, to weighing 78kg after her delivery, to ballooning back to 85kg during her confinement...sheâs now 66kg!Â
- She started waist training this year! Her waistline has reduced by 3cm so sheâs now 76cm.
How Did She Change Her Life?
Going Cold Turkey
She cut out most of the sugar and carbs in her diet. And no, she didnât cut it out slowlyâshe went cold turkey and cut it out completely!Â
Although she sometimes consumes sugary or carb-rich foods especially during special occasions like birthday celebrations, she disciplines herself to get back on her diet and watches what she eats afterwards.Â
Her âcold turkeyâ strategy was also made easier with her daily ketones supplements which sheâs been on for over a year. âIt helps regulate my appetite,â she says.Â
Sheâs much happier today because sheâs in control of what she eats. Even though sheâs on a low-carb diet, she feels more energized!
Running
With this newfound energy, she expends it by running almost everyday.Â
She started running for a distance of 2km to 3km but can now run up to 10km!
While she could see that she was losing fat, she realised she had one stubborn area where the fat didnât burn off: her waist.Â
Getting a Smaller Waist
She was introduced to Waistlabâs waist trainers by her friends who had been waist training for months.Â
After following us on Instagram and reading up more about us, she decided to get herself our waist trainer.Â
âItâs comfortable to wear. Within a few days, I could see my waist being more defined. My posture was also better!âÂ
She waist trains for 3 to 4 hours a day. She wears it mostly at work so that she has a good posture as she tends to slouch.Â
Check out the waist trainer she's wearing here!
The Final Setback
It might sound like sheâs got her life together but thereâs one final setback thatâs holding her back: her past as an ex-offender.Â
Changing perceptions is tough and Vyriella is no stranger to it.Â
âBeing an ex-offender in this digital age has made it SO HARD for individuals like myself who had brushes with the law to reboot our lives with a clean slate.â
Since itâs hard for her to find a job, this inspired her to be an entrepreneur and run an online business.Â
We celebrate Vyriellaâs victory in overcoming her demons and achieving her health and fitness goals, but her work isnât over. She works twice as hard as everyone else to prove her worth because of her past.Â
For beating the odds, we truly commend her as one of our #WomenOfWaistlab â€ïž